Showing posts with label open questions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label open questions. Show all posts

Thursday, 27 March 2014

Talking to strangers

Obviously we tell our children not to speak with strangers. A message I clearly endorse so please don't misunderstand what I am about to say.

Talk to strangers.

For every one of our friends at some point was a stranger. We're were not born preprogrammed with friendship and knowledge of certain specified others. We were also strangers to them at the same time.

I do make the effort to talk to strangers - I may be the only person who asks the person serving me whether they are having a good day. I may be the only one to ask the person n the queue how they are doing today. Or maybe I won't, but I would rather have a brief conversation with someone I don't know and interact with them on a personal level than get to the end of the day having deprived myself and others of the possibility of new experiences.

Today I will do the same - asking strangers open questions that may enrich their lives as well as mine.